Know what you stand for and you will know how to live. It is that kind of having a purpose that’s why you live. You live and breathe for something that you yearn for, you aspire of doing, you find self-fulfillment. Is it also in these instances that you find the meaning of your life; the life I have destined for you. What have you been doing so far that gives meaning to yourself and your life? Stand for it and live life!
“The book is like talking to you. As you go along there are affirmations as well as new discoveries uncovered.”
Alessandra E. Tiaoqui, Credit Supervision and Services Group Head, Planters Development Bank
Being of service to others is one fine opportunity that many of us would like to experience. There’s no question most of us have the innate ability to render service to others. In fact, when we hear of calamities, we immediately commiserate and feel pity of the misfortunes of others. We even feel like crying and wanting to comfort and console them. However, for most of us too, it just stops there: we just think, we just feel, but we don’t act.
As one who leads people, one of my special joys is the privilege of helping young people believe in themselves. I’ve always loved to coach and mentor individuals who have the willingness to learn and the passion to act on improving themselves. It’s a joy seeing people grow and develop into confident persons, helping them believe in themselves.
The past week started with the Gospel story about the rich, young man, who asked Jesus about what must be done “to share in everlasting life”. Jesus answered by telling him the commandments, and then the young man replied that he “has kept all these since my childhood.” Then Jesus looked at him with love and told him, to: “Go and sell what you have and give to the poor; you will then have treasure in heaven. After that, come and follow me” (Mk. 10: 17–21). We know the rest of the parable that the young man “went away sad, for he had many possessions. Jesus looked around and said to his disciples, “How hard it is for the rich to enter the kingdom of God!” (Mk. 10: 22-23).
We may have already heard of this parable so many times in our lives and yet, we may not have fully thought of what this really means. This is God calling us to action. This is a call to faith. We are being challenged to give up our own possessions and then follow Jesus. It is difficult for the rich to enter heaven because the rich, being endowed with more, have more responsibilities. Jesus has used an expression, denoting a difficulty altogether by man, but can be made possible only by the grace of God. The poor, while not being so much exposed to sins related to greed, also face other forms like pride and lust, and therefore, also risk heaven.
The call to faith is about serving and loving others who are beyond our friends and families. It means a genuine concern for people because of our love for the Lord and therefore would want to please and obey Him. This love for Christ results in us seeing the Lord in others, regardless of who they are in life. While loving our family and friends is easy, loving our enemies (or people we consider unlovable) is difficult for us, and we need to remind ourselves that loving only our families and friends will not make us any different from others. “For if you love those who love you, what recompense will you have? Do not the tax collectors do the same? And if you greet your brothers only, what is unusual about that? Do not the pagans do the same? (Mt: 5:46 – 47).
In serving others, Champions don’t distinguish people from one another. They don’t distinguish their concern for others by the class of people they serve. Their love for others is authentic and real, because they see that life becomes more meaningful that way. They consider this as an essential ingredient for happiness and inner peace.
Champions see themselves as servants of life (Fr. Robleza, Code of Champions):
“Champions come across as an inspiring personae not because of their perceived nobility or sharpness. Greatness is not about one’s self. It is not how and what we have shaped our selves to be. Champions stand as the epitome of what life is all about.
His value is perhaps measured more by his influence on the lives of other people. They sense that such a life could also be a great experience for others. Champions seem not to be mindful of their own value to the community, rather, they look at the tasks that need to be done, and do them without further analysis other than how it will benefit their cause or their neighbor.”
Thus, the desire to serve is an inner quality that Champions develop in themselves, eventually putting into action and becoming a fruitful reality as they go on their life journeys.
This is our challenge. As Fr. Armand has said, “Genuine faith is never comfortable. Faith demands that we leave something behind.” To answer the call to expressing our faith through genuine action we need the saving power of God to give us the strength and courage to be holy and acceptable to Him. We don’t have to worry about our inadequacies and weaknesses, because we just have to trust in the Lord’s infinite grace and mercy. After all, it isn’t just about being able to; it is about being available for service. As St. Paul has said, “Therefore I am content with weakness, with mistreatment, with distress, with persecutions and difficulties for the sake of Christ; for when I am powerless, it is then that I am strong.” (2 Cor. 12:10).
Recognize that you have it in you to be faithful to your commitment. Take the journey and collaborate with kindred spirits. Be at your best in committing yourself for the greater good and enriching other people’s lives.
“Fr. Armand’s Code of Champions seminar gifted me with thought-provoking words of wisdom that encouraged me take a closer look at how I live my life, set my priorities, and interact with the people around me. The seminar provided me with guiding principles on how to transform myself into a champion in my own life as well as the lives of others.”
Reynaldo L. Saludares, Assistant Solicitor General
These past few days, the Gospels have emphasized the need for us to become like little children. We hear of the story wherein after so much arguing by the Apostles on who is the greatest, Jesus sat down and called the Twelve around Him and said, “If anyone wishes to rank first, he must remain the last one of all and the servant of all” (St. Mark 9: 35, the New American Bible). Continue reading Humbling Ourselves Like Little Children
“Some of the things discussed ties nicely with Stellar’s core values like uncompromising integrity. Father Armand is a good speaker.”
Aleli Salazar, Learning and Organizational Effectiveness Lead, Stellar BPO
While preparing for this reflection, my Aunt Ciony (Mom’s youngest sister) posted a table on Facebook showing how the Apostles died. The table showed the name of the apostles, and on the opposite side, the manner of their deaths. It’s interesting to note that, except for St. John the Beloved, all of them died by execution and hence, martyrdom. From St. Peter, who asked to be crucified upside down, in respect to the Savior’s crucifixion, up to St. Thaddeus, who was stoned, all of them gladly gave up their lives for the faith. Their deaths were brutal, characteristic of the times they lived. They were not alone: many followed their footsteps, including our very own Filipino saints, St. Lorenzo Ruiz and St. Pedro Calungsod. Even up to now, my hair always stand on end, recalling the intense love our honored saints have for our Savior Jesus Christ, that their lives are worth giving up, to gain eternity. Moments after I shared that table on my wall, my nephew Ariel commented: