I’m sure you know someone experiencing or grappling with depression. One of the surprises I had during the past year is the increase in number of my younger friends experiencing some form of depression. According to the World Health Organization, the global rate of this disorder has risen by more than 18% in the period 2005 – 2015. It was estimated that 322 million people are living with depression (about 3.29 million of them are in the Philippines), making it the leading cause of ill health and disability worldwide.
In my conversations with some of them, they’ve mentioned a recurring answer: their feeling of sadness persists, and suddenly they felt a loss of interest in the things that they normally like. (While not yet reaching critical phases, they’ve agreed to consider seeking professional help.)
Why are they experiencing that?
Unknown to most, there are hurts that people experienced especially during the early years of life. This is kept in our beings in what Fr. Armand Robleza calls, “The Wounded Self”. This is the part of the self that is “ugly and embarrassing”, so most people deny this and even distance themselves from, thus it is an area where most are generally unconscious of. It results into poor self-image, anger, and even fear of life!
In the Gospel today, after hearing what John the Baptist said, the two disciples started to follow Jesus, who turned and saw them, and said, “What are you looking for?” (Jn. 1: 38) This is a telling question and certainly the answer we give can indeed be a life-changing event, as proven by the disciples who eventually became the Lord’s disciples and found a fulfilling life beyond.
Instinctively, there is always something great about life. That is why we dream. That is why we leave our comfort zones in search of fulfillment to the meaning of our lives. It is an exciting journey towards our Real Home. Life is inspired about hitting the target and achieving the mission we have set for ourselves. With the grace provided as a gift by God.
Yet finding our place in the grand scheme of things isn’t easy. One must know the difficulties and how to overcome these. Just like the wounded self, these obstacles are also hidden and can’t be seen unless pointed to us by our mentors and our teachers.
How about you? Have you found what you are looking for? (If you haven’t yet, you may need a guide in your life’s journey. Attend the Code of Champions Seminar; it will change your life!)
“We have found the Messiah: Jesus Christ, who brings us truth and grace.” (Jn. 1: 41, 17B)