Yesterday we attended lunch hosted by close friends, a couple who came home from the United States for a short visit. The meal was fun and lively, as we get to hear how they’re coping with life in New Jersey, aside from reminiscing the moments our group has experienced since way back. There are relationships that despite the distance, remain as strong as ever. This is one of those.
However, one of these friends (an elderly couple) who came, had a daughter who passed away many years ago. Their daughter was in fact active in God’s service at the time of her passing (at one of the parishes in Mandaluyong). Her demise was sudden such that even up to now, her mother is still grieving over the loss and hasn’t moved on. She is sad especially with the thought that two young children are left behind. Now the children are growing up well, and their grandmother are actively involved in rearing them up. We are praying that she’ll be able to finally accept what happened, knowing that the Lord is in control of what’s happening.
There are times that situations have really sunk deep into us, such that when certain events happen in our life, we are indifferent and continue in a state of unbelief. In the Gospel, the risen Lord has to ask the disciples,
“Why are you troubled? And why do questions arise in your hearts? Look at my hands and my feet, that it is I myself. Touch me and see, because a ghost does not have flesh and bones as you can see I have.” (Lk. 24: 38-39)
He felt the grief and told them that “everything written in the law of Moses
and in the prophets and psalms must be fulfilled.” (v. 44b) Jesus conquered death, and the Scriptures has said it all, with more explanations including the readings this Sunday. The story of suffering, which all of us have experienced one way or the other; is always something unpleasant, whether it’s a happy, or a violent death. Yet, there is something beautiful in it. The Lord demonstrated such beauty in His Passion and His death, culminating in His Glorious Resurrection, and it’s the same in people’s lives. While Jesus doesn’t need to suffer, His great love for the Father and for us all drove Him to obey the will of God the Father. When we question why we have challenges to overcome, and why bad things have to happen, we just have to think about the Lord’s own suffering. Given His passion and His death on the Cross, think about it: who has suffered a more violent death? Every time we sin, we contribute to that burden and pain. So, if Jesus had to sacrifice and suffer for us, why shouldn’t we have to? Through His suffering and death, Jesus conquered death and saved us all; such beauty of God’s deep love for us, isn’t it? More importantly, it is through pain and suffering that we sharpen our faith, trust the Lord’s ways more, and essentially become better and wiser in the ways of God.
We have to remember though that redemption isn’t automatic, we have to do our part by repenting our sins and going to the Sacrament of Reconciliation. God has been so understanding and considerate with us, His goodness overflows. As the First Reading shows how St. Peter exhorted the new believers to “Repent, therefore, and be converted, that your sins may be wiped away”, we all have the obligation to respond to God’s invitation — if we like to go and meet Him in His Eternal Glory. We just have to trust that the Lord is in control — in total control of everything.
Are you ready to respond to the challenge?
“Lord Jesus, open the Scriptures to us; make our hearts burn while you speak to us.” (Lk. 24: 32)